Rules of the Realm

PLEASE READ CAREFULLY!!

Our Rules:

Keep Your Phones in Their Own Little Harem

Photos and Videos? Nope, not happening. This isn’t Instagram, so if you’re itching to ‘Gram it, you might want to scratch that itch elsewhere. Phones stay tucked away, safe from accidental revelations. We want you to live this night, not record it. To keep the memories alive, we’ll have official photographers capturing the night’s magic. Don’t worry—they’ll be tasteful xx. These photos will be available only to our guests through special links, protected with unique access codes shared exclusively with you.

Vetting is Obligatory

Our doors won't be revolving, and our invites won't be tossed around like rice on your halal wedding day. You & your friends gotta be vetted and fully on board with our vibe. Fill out the vetting form like you mean it; we’ll know if you didn’t.

Consent is Queen (and King)

All interactions must be consensual—no exceptions. If it’s not a clear and enthusiastic “yes,” it’s a no. If you can’t respect the art of “no thanks” or “not for me,” it’s time for you to go.

Seriously. Keep your hands, eyes, and vibes where they’re welcome. Be respectful, enjoy the night, and help us keep this space magical for everyone.

Don't be an Osama-hole!

We have ZERO tolerance for creepers and hunters. If you think you can break the sacred trust of our community, don’t be surprised if you find yourself banned for life.

At Harem KnK, inclusivity is not just a vibe—it’s the foundation of our space. Hate speech, discrimination, or any form of intolerance has no place here. Whether it’s rooted in race, religion, gender, sexual orientation, ability, or anything else that makes us unique, leave your prejudice at the door—or better yet, don’t bother showing up. We’re all about good energy, and you won’t be part of it if you can’t play nice!

You are Being Watched

Spot our safeguarding team. These folks run our Harem, and they are there to make sure everyone’s safe, comfy, and having the time of their lives. You’ll know them by their laser-focused side-eye, their talent for diffusing anything unpleasant before it begins, and their RED GLOWING ARM BANDS.

How we play

No Solo Sexual Activity: Engaging in solo sexual acts in our spaces is not permitted, as it can make others uncomfortable and is perceived as non-consensual behavior.

Respect Personal Boundaries: Do not touch or initiate play with anyone without their explicit consent. Unsolicited physical contact is unacceptable.

No Interruptions: Do not disturb others' scenes or play sessions. If you're interested in joining, seek permission and respect their response.

Prohibition of Illegal Activities: The use or distribution of illegal substances is strictly forbidden on the premises. Additionally, any form of sex work or solicitation is not allowed during events.

Permitted Play Toys:

Impact Toys: Items such as floggers, paddles, and crops are generally acceptable, provided they are used safely and consensually.

Restraints: Handcuffs, ropes, and other bondage equipment are typically allowed, with an emphasis on proper technique to ensure safety.

Sensory Play Items: Feathers, blindfolds, and other tools designed to enhance sensory experiences are usually permitted.

Prohibited Play Toys:

Fire Play Equipment: Due to the inherent risks and potential hazards, items intended for fire play are often not allowed.

Sharp Objects: Knives, needles, and other sharp instruments are generally prohibited to prevent injuries.

Non-Consensual Devices: Any equipment designed to restrain or impact someone without their explicit consent is strictly forbidden.

General Guidelines:

Safety First: All play must prioritize the safety and well-being of participants.

Consent is Crucial: Ensure all activities are consensual, with clear communication between all parties involved.

Respect the Space: Use play equipment appropriately and be mindful of the venue's rules and the comfort of other attendees.

Dress Code: It's a Cultural Celebration, not Appropriation

We’re here to bask in Middle Eastern elegance, not turn it into a costume party. Keep it classy, respectful, and appreciate the culture behind this curated experience. Outfit checks will be carried at the door. Failure to adhere to our dress code will result in you being banned from entry. Your ticket will not be refunded. Jeans, tracksuits, and t-shirts are NOT allowed.

Now that we got that out of the way, picture yourself draped in gold and silver anklets, bracelets, and all the glittery bangles that add mystery and allure. Think sheer veils, face-covering accessories, items that channel the mystique of Middle Eastern sensuality. Now, can we add a dash of Western k*nk? F*CK ME SIDEWAYS, YES —your chains, leather, latex, harnesses, and whips all have a place in our Harem.

Check our mood board for inspo!

Look Out for Each Other

We’re a community, and that means having each other’s backs. If you see something, say something—our safeguarding team is here to help.